My first child valued
her library card. When the time came that the books she checked out were of her
own choosing, not mine or a teacher’s, I discovered that books open doors to
discussion. That’s especially helpful when the discussion is not easy.
Bullying is always a
concern, but as school bells announced the end of summer this year, at least
one news source reported that the group most vulnerable to bullies in academic
settings is the LGBTQ community. If you
want to begin a discussion with your kids, here are a couple of books that
might open a door. One is for parents, the other for teens.
PLAYING A PART by
Daria Wilke, Translated by Marian Schwartz, Arthur Levine Books, imprint of
Scholastic, 2012.
Grishka’s mother and
father are actors in a puppet theatre in Russia. This is Grishka’s whole world.
His friend, Sam, a talented young adult actor and puppeteer, has announced he
will leave the theatre soon and go to Holland to escape the risks of homophobic
persecution in Russia. A number of
subplots involving family and friends lend themselves to the coming of age
moments Grishka experiences, including standing up to his grandfather who is
homophobic.
I saw the Jester
puppet as a metaphor for Grishka’s personality and growth. How and why do
people play the part of the Jester? What made them be that way? What happens
when the role of Jester doesn’t work?
Author Daria Wilke was
born in Moscow and grew up surrounded by the art and craft of puppetry. Marian Schwartz is an award-winning translator
of Russian literature.
This is a
beautifully written thought-provoking book, and the translation preserves its
quality.
CROOKED LETTER i:
Coming Out in the South, edited by Connie Griffin, NewSouth Books, 2015
The contributors to
this enlightening collection of first-person narratives are professional
writers who are Southerners. They are also gay, lesbian, or transgendered. Readers
will applaud their courage to share some of their most painful growing up
experiences.
The thread that
caught this children’s writer’s eye was not the Southern connection, but the
childhood experiences of each writer.
Parents who simply didn’t understand what they were doing tried to do
the right thing. In most cases this turned out to be the very worst thing to do
to their much loved children. The same thing could be said for the community,
teachers, pastors, many who thought their actions were helpful when in fact,
they were hurtful and their impact destructive.
In reading this book
a second and third time, which I often do before I review a book here, I kept
returning to the essay by Merril Mushroom, “The Gay Kids and the Johns
Committee” for a sense of history in the late 1950’s and 1960’s. Were others
being persecuted? Yes, the McCarthy hearings were in progress. And then there
was Brown vs. Board of Education.
Whatever the term “civil rights” means to you, capitalized or not, the circle
of those who should have them and don’t is wide.
The essays can be
read out of order. If you are looking for a shorter essay that ends with hope
and acceptance, “Coming Home,” by Logan Knight is a good choice. It is the second essay in the book, but it
would also be a good one to read last as a way to remember the book. Hope and
acceptance between generations is always a positive sign.
May you find doors
to walk through to discussions that will keep leading you and yours forward
together.